Toni Payne gets emotional on instagram, says she loved the wrong person

 

9ice's ex-wife and mother of his first child, TV host and lifestyle writer Toni Payne took to her instagram page this

 morning to pen down a touching statement to her fans, a few days after she reacted angrily to fans who accused

 her of cheating on her ex-husband. Toni says she feels bad that she's being accused of something she never did.

 What she wrote below...

The other day I lost my cool when I shud av ignored cos I let people who do not matter get to me. It got 

me trending in a way I did not like and that for me I can't ignore. Till today, I get an unreasonable amount 

of hate for something I did not do. I ignore most times but this time I reacted. I've been thru a lot so 

sometimes I find them hard to ignore, maybe because Iv addressed it to the point that it feels like it will 

never go away. Iv been called every name in the book, bitch, attn seeker, etc simply because I loved the 

wrong person but still I held my head high choosing to carry on. 

I do my best to stay true to who I am and be a good person. Tho sum may deem it weakness, I'm a free spirit

 and av no problem baring my soul so yes I'll admit, even though I'm strong, it sometimes gets to me. Not

 because their opinions matter but because I even have to deal with it in the first place and most of the time it

 feels surreal. I understand that not everyone will like me, so they will use anything they can against me. I 

probably wouldn't care if it was something I actually did. 

Then I'll accept that It is what it is. I wish I could explain the feeling of being wrongly accused in that magnitude.

 It's like a million welts digging deep at your soul, and no one seems to understand you. To some it's funny, 

to some it's a headline, to me, it's reassurance I have to give my son that a nasty rumor was badly mismanaged.

 It's the explaining I will be doing in the years to come. 

It's irritating when it keeps popping up and I have to turn the other cheek but I'm learning each day to always keep

 my cool. I'm happy and content but also human. Excuse me if I react sometimes to stupidity thrown in my 

direction.. God gave me a fresh start and for that I should be grateful.. Apologies if I disappointed anyone by 

clapping back.....I promise next time to try harder to ignore and hopefully this will be the last of it... Xoxo #Osha